A sizzling chemistry between you and your partner is as much about the emotional connect as it is about physical attraction. That's why we’ve rounded up four sex and intimacy topics that you and your partner must discuss for a happy and healthy sex life.



Fantasies and fetishes
He likes to be tied up and whipped, but you’re more of a vanilla lover, or vice versa? Isn’t it better to be aware of these things in advance so that you’re not shocked or put off later? Discussing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your partner will ensure you’re on the same page and are better prepared for possible sexual adventures.



Sexual history and secrets
If you have had a bad case of herpes a few months ago, it’s in the best interest of you and your partner to divulge this info. Things like STDs, sexual disorders, medical history, etc. are topics that shouldn’t be avoided. You don’t have to discuss every little detail about your sexual past, but it’s a good idea to talk about the important bits.



If you’re exclusive or not
Let there be no doubt in your mind about the exclusivity of your relationship. This only helps avoid heartbreak in the future. Talk to your partner about it and decide whether you’re both in it for the long haul, and that you’re on the same page about being exclusive.



Needs and desires
None of us are mind readers. For an enjoyable sex life, both partners need to know what the other likes/wants. And this can be possible only through discussion. Keep all your inhibitions aside and talk about what you like, or don’t like, or would like to experiment with in your relationship.